As Valentine's Day nears, we need to sit back and think about what love truly is. It does not have to be kissing, chocolate, roses and flowers. In To Be Sane, Andy Young stays by Selena Harrison's side, even though he does not quite understand her. Selena is forgiving towards Andy even though she does not understand his aloofness. What can you do to show someone you love them? The best way to love others is to be there for them and sacrifice your time/desires for them.